For queer individuals, finding their voice during sex can be particularly challenging due to societal norms and the fear of judgment and discrimination. Growing up feeling marginalized and invalidated can lead to hesitancy in expressing desires and boundaries, hindering authentic self-expression in intimate moments. However, embracing one’s unique desires and breaking free from societal expectations can be a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and acceptance. Asking for what you want during sex, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, is a powerful act of empowerment. It grants agency over one’s body, fosters trust and intimacy, and leads to more fulfilling experiences...